Hard is good sometimes! Other times, though, you might want something slightly softer, flexible, and confetti-studded, like CalExotics' Party Boy.

Aside from a squeezably firm, super realistic (penis) shape and some subtle texture, this premium dildo has lots of deep-diving length and a ballsy base that's easy to hang onto.

Seriously sensational for pegging, plus all sorts of strap-on situations, your Party Boy dildo can be anchored into most O-ring or open-front harness systems. Not in the mood to strap one on? No worries, just press the base against a smooth, nonporous surface (floor, counter, shower door) and let the suction cup will hold your dildo steady as you go about your sexy business.

The silky silicone Party Boy is body-safe, easy to clean (use soapy water or a favorite toy care fluid/foam), and good to go with any water-based lube you love.